On Marriage, Lent, the Bible and "Why Catholics
Do that"
Father John J. Lombardi
Christ made the
disciples "His witnesses and gave them
understanding of the Faith and the Grace of
speech"
Unabashedly and
realistically, President Bush said last week:
"If we are to prevent the meaning of marriage
from being changed forever, our nation must
enact a constitutional amendment to protect
marriage in America."
Last week he declared:
- the sanctity of
marriage;
- the chaos of moral
affairs in America today, via events in San
Francisco and Massachusetts; and therefore
- proposed an amendment
to the Constitution to define and defend
marriage.
In essence, "push Bush"
and, somewhat like Lent, he said we should amend
our lives and the U.S. Constitution. He was
alarmed by recent precipitating,
amorally-avalanching events, and so should we!
Where are the prophets when you need them -the
Isaiah's, Jonah's and Jeremiah's-- to needle and
awaken us.? Our country is being de-moralized by
special interest groups who are formenting
change in conniving ways (promoting
homosexualism, sodomy, alternative models of
family and marriage ). Don't you find it ironic,
even Orwellian (progressivism as a form of
fascism) that a judge is denigrated and deposed
in Alabama for displaying the Ten Commandments,
and yet a mayor in San Francisco, outrightly
disobeying the law there, hands out so-called
"marriage licenses" to homosexuals persons--and
a party ensues? Forewarning: just like the
Alabama incident was a benchmark of disrespect
for natural law and God's law, so are recent San
Francisco and Massachusetts events a benchmark
for the demise of marriage, family, human
sexuality in the U.S.
However, this past
Friday the New York Times reported that many
state legislators, energized by the "Bush
initiative," are proposing measures to ban "gay
marriage". Vatican II taught usthat: "At all
times the Church carries the responsibility of
reading the signs of the times and of
interpreting them in the light of the Gospel…
Traditional institutions, laws and modes of
thought and emotion do not always appear to be
in harmony with today's world. This has given
rise to a serious disruption of patterns and
even of norms of behavior" ("Church in the
Modern World," # 6,7). We need prophets like
Jeremiah to remind us of the Lord's counsels:
"Listen to My Voice; then I will be your God and
you shall be my people. Walk in the ways that I
command you, so that you may prosper" (7:23).
This issue of "same-sex
unions" is a systemic problem and we didn't just
"happen upon it" passively; it was an insidious
process of ammoralization. "Show me," you say?
Consider the past forty years (not to mention
the effects of Original Sin for a couple
thousand): the "sexual revolution" which blurred
sexual lines and activities, ill-based sexual
education which deny chastity and thereby
promote fornication; abortion, contraception and
the culture of death (manipulating sexual
reproduction and activities by ungodly means);
relativism which extends nihilism (in this case,
that there is no one truth or "fixed
sexuality"); the individual-rights movements
(which negates the common good); de-fanging of
sexual taboos like "fornication" and "adultery"
("The Scarlet Letter" is now passé,
etc); changes in religion and the authority of
the Bible and God's revelation (a "that was
then, this is now" mentality-- i.e.,
de-humanizing teachings about sexuality and
chastity, and homosexuality). In other words, "
it all adds up." However, here, it is all now
crashing down.
However, we are called,
like St Paul to sense the Lord standing by us,
and hearing Him say: "Take courage. For just as
you have borne me witness to my cause in
Jerusalem, so you must also bear witness in
Rome" (Acts 23:11). The U.S. can be "our Rome"
today.
One more point:
President Bush said activist judges are
"creating laws," and: "If judges insist on
forcing their arbitrary will upon the people,
the only alternative left to the people would be
the constitutional process". Activist judges
means those who read too much personal bias into
law, who create laws "out of thin air," who are
influenced by various activists and movments.
Progressivists are finessing the issue in terms
of "oppression against a class of people,"
"equal rights for all" and "ending
discrimination" and so forth. This is
"Orwell-revisited": control language, control
the power… What are the errors?:
- Rights denied: this
so-called "right" of two sexes joining in
marriage is not in our Constitution and
certainly not in the Bible-though some are
trying to convince us of this. Example: A
grown man's and a little girl's misperceived
"rights" are not denied when the law forbids
them marriage, and they claim discrimination
and demand a change of law by handing out
"passes" to begin false marriages. So here,
too, homosexualism is creating and forcing a
"false oppression". Likewise, one person
doesn't have the right to enslave or torture
another person, and thereby create a "right"
where this is not recognized, precisely
because, in fact, it is in our nature not to
enslave and torture others (this is called
"natural law"). Persons with homosexuality
already have the same rights you and I have.
Homsexualism (an illicit movement and
lifestyle, contrasted with authentic
individual homosexuals seeking reconciliation
and legitimate life and Faith), attempts to
create a new definition of marriage so it can
seek power and recognition; denigrate and
re-define true marriage and the family
(however subtly, this movement will try to
convince you); and change God's institutions
and laws, along with civil ones.
- Civil rights
analogies: homosexualism-the-movment, and even
some politicians say-black persons gained
civil rights, and so should homosexual persons
thru unions. Obviously: this is more "big
government" (which progrsessivism promotes)
and, ironically, it is legislating morality
(which is a phrase they dislike). The false
analogy between civil rights and illegitimate
homsexualism is cunning and calumnious. They
will gather power from civil rights people and
yet denigrates them: there's a basic
difference between slavery issues and sodomy .
Thirty-five states have passed laws forbidding
same sex unions. Is this a civil rights
denial?
- Egalitairansm: this
means a forced, falsified equality-like trying
to make a girl and a boy "equal" in biology,
sexuality and so forth (God made them
different, male and female, "-cf. Gn ch. 2).
Homsoexualism wants to spread this
philosophical error. We Americans need to
understand we are all equal under God but with
different abilities, strengths and weaknesses.
We cannot force one's "equality" upon another,
or "usurp equality" from others. Now, about 77
percent of Californians oppose civil unions
and a small minority there is creating chaos.
Likewise, about 50 per cent were against
partial birth abortion and yet this was signed
into law.
Think: if the Mayor of
Frisco began handing out machine guns to
children, people would be in arms (no pun
intended). There's not only a physical danger,
there's also a spiritual danger (just as in
homsoexualism). If someone encouraged slavery,
people would revolt; if a politician handed out
cigarettes to children, people would vigorously
protest. But, since the issue is homosexuality
and many progressivist establishments are for
this, then there is no revolt.
Let's look at some
spiritual solutions:
Pope John Paul II said,
"It is not enough to discover Christ--you must
bring him to others! The world today is one
great mission land, even in countries of
longstanding Christian tradition."
Constitutional
amendment-yes. However: government can't solve
everything . Every person, priest and preacher
need do his or her "job": be holy, defend the
faith and pass on the values and virtues of our
Religion as if no one else is gonna' do it-there
are no guarantees now. Some of our civil and
religious leaders have failed-now you must
respond to defend the family and marriage-by
your witness, by your compassionate and
challenging actions, by your knowledge of the
Faith, the Bible and yes, "The Catechism".
Some civil and religious
leaders-- have failed in alarming and
spiritually arming us, because of being
anesthetized to the culture and the corruption
surrounding them; and being co-opted by the
power and seduction of it all, have been won
over by many false ideologies. (For instance:
Catholic Fidel Castro used to be an altar boy
and is now still dictator. Besieged Pres. Jean
Baptise Aristide of Haiti is a priest-and is now
perilously surviving a rebellion: there are no
guarantees).
Prophets: Regarding
marriage, human sexuality and the response to
homsexualism, we need prophetic voices who blend
compassion (for those involved) with challenge,
to falsifying, seductive ideologies. Look: at
work or home (or even church!) you don't have to
dress in sack-cloth and ashes (cf. Jonah 3:5,6)
or always look glum. What you can do is plant
seeds of truth, always speak respectfully about
marriage, family life and homosexual persons, no
matter what, and thereby defend the Catholic
Church and her "authentic teachings", and yes,
you can support an amendment to the
Constitution-you can do all this, in whatever
ways God allows or calls you. You cannot be
silent! The prophets of Israel all shouted that
they should not live like pagans or slaves to
the world. The story of Lazarus and the Rich Man
is instructive (Lk. 16:20). The "rich man" in
the story, is depicted in a hellish place
because of a sin of omission-he simply neglected
to "do good". Don't neglect your duty .
Write letters of support
to the President and encourage legislators to
promote authentic marriage and family life.
Remember to cry loud and prophetically: St John
did-"A Voice of one crying in the
wilderness-make straight the ways of the Lord" (Lk.
3:5). Some are responding-spiritually and
"secularly". The movement against "same-sex
unions" is diverse and not what the media
negatively caricaturizes it as. Friday, The New
York Times reported: "Proponents of banning gay
marriage contend that the Maryland fight shows
the bipartisan, multi-cultural nature of their
movement: one of the most outspoken proponents
of a constitutional amendment is a black Baptist
minister from Baltimore who is a democrat state
delegate.. 'The overwhelming majority of people
don't agree with gay marriage,' said the
delegate, Emmett C. Burns." Support your
legislators!
Pray and Fast: It's
Lent, after all, so why not?! Offer up
sacrifices to solidify yourself in the spiritual
life and, like the Lord Himself, make yourself
strong for the battle
Support Catholic and
Christian Couples and Families: Visit and pray
with them, encourage them, help them thru works
of mercy- even if you're divorced you can
support God, family and Church!
Persons who are
homosexual: not all such persons are part of an
antagonist movement. Listen to, and, where
possible, guide and relate to them as a brother
or sister. There are Christian groups which help
those in this challenge (contact: Courage,
Exodus International. And see what " The
Catechism of the Catholic Church" teaches on
homosexuality-there are many
misunderstandings-at paragraphs #2357ff ).
Encouraging
Priests-preachers: this is vital-We need to read
and hear about this from the pulpit and
computer-pen, about authentic Church and
biblical teaching, about how important this
issue is, how to respond and bring both
Pope John Paul wrote in
"Familiaris Consortio-The Family in the Modern
World:" "The future of humanity passes by way of
the family. It is indispensable and urgent that
every person of good will should endeavor to
save and foster the values and requirements of
the family…Loving the family means identifying
the dangers and the evils that menace it, in
order to overcome them" (#86).
Without a constitutional
amendment we will spiral into more chaos-that
is, without your response.
Catholics and all
Christians need do two things: be compassionate
and challenging…How will you respond?
Why Do Catholics Do
that?...Especially in Lent
Many people, including
some Catholics, do not understand that many of
our customs and traditions spring from the
Bible. For instance, Lent itself (which means
spring) is derived from the forty years the
Israelites were in the desert, and the forty
days of Jesus in the desert. So we, too, prepare
for the celebration of Jesus saving us from sin
(otherwise we will get sluggish, lax: this is
our needed Spring Training"!) Also, look at the
Grotto's beautiful tabernacle in the Glass
Chapel and think of the iconic angels (cherubim)
guarding the Ark of the Covenant (Ex 25:18)
which carried the Ten Commandments. But: our
tabernacle carries the Lord Himself! Our holy
water reminds us of being baptized (which from
Greek, baptzein, means immersion), John the
Baptist in Jordon : when dipping hands in and
making sign of Cross we remind ourselves who we
are. Some other Catholic practices to
cosnider-esp. for Lent-to Spring, include:
- Stations of the
Cross: Way of the Cross is way to follow
Jesus, immerse yourself in His Passion. They
were "designed" for pilgrims who could not go
to the Holy Land; so they are a democratized
spirituality for all. Get a copy of the
Fourteen Stations . Pray them and love the
Savior!
We meditate upon these to imprint them and
their lessons within our Souls: How much God
loved us (He picked up the Cross, fell, died);
His death for our sins (Station Twelve) ; His
solidarity with us in suffering; His desire
for our holiness/saintliness (Simon carrying
Cross for Jesus-# ); the sadness of life
(closing of the tomb) Try to prayerfully walk
or meditate upon these every Friday (and then:
not just in Lent, but all year around. This
will be a great advance in holiness!).
- Mass: This is a
re-presentation of Calvary and the Last
Supper, not separate from these events (we
don't re-sacrifice Jesus; neither is a
re-enactment of His life).
- Lady mentioned how
she loved how a new, young priest held, in
extended fashion, the Holy Eucharist for all
to see after the consecration. She said she
could make an act of contrition-and hopes he
will continue, despite offsetting complaints.
"Behold the Lamb of God Who takes away the
sins of the world…"
- Confession: see James
5:16-Confess your sins to one another" and Jn
21, and Mt 16:18. Clean your soul frequently!
- Pray: Catholics
believe in all kinds of prayer, and
(hopefully) make a special effort to pray in
Lent. After all, Jesus said: "Come away by
ourselves to a deserted place and rest awhile"
(Mk. 6:31) Recently I went to a families house
for Mardi Gras Dinner. Scumptuous! After that
the family asked if I'd like to pray the
Rosary: with a bunch of children! Well, during
the Rosary, there was beautiful silence
blended with some wrestling kids, a crying
baby, a boy who stubbed his toe and so forth.
The parents persevered, better yet, they
heroically prayed and led the children (and
this priest) in prayer. Are you being heroic
in your prayer?
- Almsgiving-A lady one
time heard a homily on spiritual poverty (St
Luke describes inner giving and freedom- II
Cor 8: 2: "The abundance of their joy and
their profound poverty overflowed in a wealth
of generosity on their part" ). .After this
she wanted to help the Church and also to
become free(er)-so she gave a diamond ring to
the preacher. He checked it out: it was
appraised at about $10,000.Are you being
generous…to be freed?
Briefly Noted
Priesthood and abuse:
The recent John Jay Study of the clerical abuse
issues was issued on Friday. It was shocking
(four percent of priests from the 1950's onward
were found to be abusers), alarming (80 per cent
homosexual situations), and sad (those called to
heal and reconcile are shown to be so wounded
and sick themselves). Hopefully these facts will
help victims heal and our Church heal, too, and
confront the deeper issues underlying them,
mentioned above.
Read
other reflections by Father John J. Lombardi
|