Father John J. Lombardi
Have you ever known or
seen a saint? Many of us now can say we have, as
Pope John Paul II (himself a saintly man)
beatifies Mother Teresa of Calcutta.
She was a saint but she
realized she was a sinner, in need of God's
mercy and that she "was just a little pencil in
God's hands". If only we could all be the same!
She was little (just
over five feet tall) but big in everyone's eyes
(receiving a Nobel peace prize, being a friend
of the Pope). She moved around a lot: she was
born in Albania and then moved to India, and
now, well, she's in Heaven. Next to the Pope,
she's probably traveled around more than most
people in the world. Why? To serve the poor, the
sick and dying, and to spread Jesus' good News
and challenge. Mother Teresa never changed her
message according to spin doctors and PR cadres.
No matter who she was talking to, she called all
in the same way to holiness, simplicity of
lifestyle, prayer and serving the poor, and
following Jesus. Everyone can do all these
things, with no one excepted. She never
condemned but often challenged: When she talked
to Americans she intimated we're the richest
country in the world yet the most lonely and
materialistic, with so many resultant "throwaway
children," ensuing abortions, and persons
separated from families.
Mother Teresa visited to
so many people she eventually got a business
card. It summarizes her spirituality and message
perfectly. Study and memorize it, and become
saintly, too: "The fruit of silence is prayer.
The fruit of prayer is love. The Fruit of
love is service. And the fruit of service is
peace." This is a "spiritual recipe" for
holiness.
The saints are our
friends God gives us to spur us on to greater
holiness. They want to help us and guide us in
our ways. The Church is giving us an example in
Mother Teresa so let's investigate her life more
deeply and how she became holy, so we may become
saintly. Here are some Questions and Answers
about this little and gigantic lady of Calcutta
and Heaven:
Question: Why is Mother
Teresa being beatified so quickly? A.: That's
easy-everyone knows the obvious-she was holy,
she loved Jesus radically, and she helped poor
people no one else would help. Her living
example of "love in action" was a perfect
illustration of Jesus living in her-all
lifelong. What you saw was what you got. The
Pope himself changed the mandatory
time-requirement to investigate her cause
because, well, everyone knows the obvious!
Q. What was she like? A.
She was a human being, a sinner like all of us,
sometimes funny and sometimes intense, but
always serious about following Jesus' Ways. One
time, a priest visiting Calcutta and working
with the Missionaries of Charity (MC's), while
walking the streets would get very sweaty and
sunburned, especially with little hair on his
head. Mother Teresa and the priest conversed on
a hot day, and she said: "Father, you have very
little hair up there (pointing gingerly to his
head) do you want a hat?" The priest said he had
a bandanna and respectfully declined. She
persisted and said: "Be careful out there, it
gets very hot!" (as she kept looking at his
balding head).
She then reached up to
his head and said: "Do you think holy water
would help?" Saints are people too! She once
said: "It is not how much we do but how much
love we put in the doing." . Another time
a priest asked her Mother Teresa, after seeing
her concerned about something, asked what was
wrong, and she said one of her sisters was hit
by a train and was in the hospital. They went to
the hospital and the priest never saw Mother
Teresa look so serious (even in chapel). She
began to talk to the sister who was all bandaged
up. She spoke loudly telling the sister who she
was ("It is 'Mother'") and then said a priest
was there for help. Then she began placing
Miraculous Medals on the I.V. drip bottle, on
the bandages of sister's forehead and hands, and
elsewhere on her body. She asked the sister if
she was sorry for her sins and if she loved
Jesus.
The priest and Mother
went out of the room before a confession was
made. While waiting Mother Teresa was distraught
though not despairing-one of her daughters was
on the edge of death. At this time she was not
beaming smiles but bridled with concern. Her
humanness and great love of her daughter shone
thru-a saint of compassion and humanness. She
once said: "Let kindness be in your face, in
your eyes, in your smile. Don't only give your
care, give your heart as well." .
Another time she went to an orphanage for
children. As soon as the truck carrying her
pulled up in the gates, the children came
running to her, touching her feet and blessing
themselves.
After the near bedlam of
ecstasy, in an upstairs room, they all sang a
song in Bengali, to the Virgin Mary icon on a
wall, as Mother held a baby in her arms. They
was a joyful bliss to the occasion. Later, in
the visit the MC's brought food and other
products from the truck. Mother began
assertively calling orders to the various
sisters; the sisters complied, and Mother
continued the mission-pointing, speaking
directly and making wishes known: the saint was
working her mission. She said: "The work we do
is our love for Christ transformed into
deeds."... When Mother was sick in New Delhi,
she almost died. The MC Sisters prayed, offered
Masses and sacrifices for days, and even all of
India, prayed for her, wondering if Mother would
ever return home. Finally, she got better and
returned to Calcutta. What was the first thing
she did? She asked for a Mass to be said for her
in thanksgiving, frailly attended and received
Holy Communion. She said: "If we have faith we
take Jesus at His word. We need faith to worship
God and have a sprit of sacrifice. We need to
spiritually feed on Him constantly."
Q.: What was Mother
Teresa's spiritual life like? A.: She got up at
4.40 in the morning and was at chapel by five.
She prayed the Liturgy of the Hours (Psalms and
Bible readings), followed by meditative silence,
and then Mass at 6am. Then she took a break, ate
something and visited with her sisters and
volunteers (teems of them in Calcutta).
Throughout the day she said prayers and
aspirations (short, loving prayers), and had
many devotions (Angelus, etc). She made many
novenas and pilgrimages. Every evening she made
a Holy Hour, before Jesus in the Holy Eucharist,
prayed the Rosary devoutly, and then spent time
in holy silence. On Fridays she meditated on The
Stations of the Cross. Oh: she owned two saris
(her religious habits), was always clean and ate
sparsely.
Q. Why did Mother Teresa
follow her radical calling? A. Upon returning
from a retreat in the Indian mountains she had a
religious experience of Jesus calling her to yet
more intimate service to Himself in the poor: "I
was sick and you helped me, in prison and your
visited me. " (see Mt. 25). She left her
bare, yet comforting environs as a sister and
began her quest, to the streets of Calcutta,
picking up and tending the bodies of the dying
and unwanted children, one person at a time. She
relied on sheer Providence to provide-food,
shelter, and more sisters to help. She trusted,
she followed, and she persevered.
Q.: What was her house
like? A. It was beautifully austere (think about
that). The main focus was the chapel (unadorned
except for a main altar, a large, realistic
crucifix--under the arms of Jesus are the words:
"I Thirst"-- there was a beautiful statue of
Mary (for feast days lovely Indian flowers
decorated it). There was a large grotto/garden
and plaza with state of Mary and flowers. There
was a library and various other rooms with, of
course, the MC's private areas. It was a
rambling building which was often bustled with
activity, was seemingly always being cleaned,
and often enlivened by the surrounding street
noises and sounds.
Q.: What was Mother
Teresa's main characteristic? A.: Tenaciousness.
This literally means "to hold onto" something
(we may usually think of tenacious football
players or the like). Mother Teresa firmly and
lovingly held on to three main things: God,
suffering for and with Jesus Christ; the poorest
of the poor; and her religious life-prayer and
spirituality, Mass, holy poverty and joyful
service. At a time when so many have compromised
a relationship with God, their vows or promises
of poverty and service, Mother Teresa never
compromised. She had to defend and keep her
simple practice of picking up "one body at a
time" against bureaucratic programs and moneyed
endeavors; she never wavered in her vow of
poverty-she and her sisters almost begged for
food and trusted in divine Providence to
provide; her devotion to Mary was childlike
untainted with intellectualism; and her faith in
the Lord Jesus was visceral, unencumbered and
straight: quench Jesus' thirst.
One of the main things
she frequently talked about was "satiating the
thirst of Jesus in the poorest of the poor". She
would not let patients have televisions and
other modernistic entertainments. For this would
compromise the silence and focus a sick person
should have with other patients and God Himself.
MC's often gave away carpets and other luxury
items because they simply didn't need them and
knew they would compromise their simple
lifestyle. They never ate a meal outside their
mother-house so not to confuse their free
offering of service. She never campaigned for
money, and yet received millions thru generous
donations because of her radical witness. And so
we all were attracted to this, to her.
Q.: O.k., now Mother
Teresa is a saintly person, but, Just what
exactly is a saint, anyway? A: There are many
answers. He or she is a person who let Jesus
live in them beautifully, consistently and
effectively, over a lifetime; a saint, simply
put, is a "Little Christ"; she or he, married,
single or religious, is a person who practiced
the virtues heroically; a saint is a person who
overcame sin and practiced holiness
consistently.
Q. What does
beatification mean? A.: It is an initial enquiry
of a holy person, and the person is found worthy
of public veneration. This step may sometimes
lead to canonization. Now we can call Mother
Teresa Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta, and
perhaps sometime, Saint Teresa.
Q.: How do the saints
help us? A. They are our examples of how to
become holy-shining inspirations-love God with
all your heart and your neighbor as well (Mk.
12:29ff). Though we cannot replicate each
saint's unique spiritual disciplines and
lifestyle we can imitate their zeal and intense
fervor for loving God and serving neighbor. They
can all arouse us with holy desire to "seek
first the Kingdom of God" (Mt. 6:33).
How to Respond.
Pray more and serve the poor: . Read St
Matthew ch. 25 on the Last Judgment and serving
Jesus. Read about other saints and how
they became holy in their unique setting, place
and time, and respond yourself. Be tenacious in
your holy pursuit!
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