Father John J. Lombardi
Second
Sunday of Advent
"He--the Angel--went in and said to her (Mary),
'Rejoice, so highly favored! The Lord is with
you.'"
Last week
while meeting with some priest-friends we spoke
of the challenge of keeping Advent as a
preparation time before Christmas. Today, based
on mass culture (versus Mass appeal), it seems
that premature celebration dominates the spirit
of Advent expectation.
When we priests began
talking about practical responses to Mammon's
materialism, Fr. Maillet related a poignant
story of how his father, each Christmastime,
would bring all the children to select a gift
for a poor person, wrap it, and then personally
deliver it to a needy child. Now that's
Christmas--giving and receiving.
One of the priests
shared the penetrating insight that today's
culture and secularists emphasize-implicitly or
explicitly-- smaller families, and that this
might, in fact, be an attack on the nature of
giving--and charity--itself. But, oppositely,
when Catholic and Christian Moms and Dads
sacrifice to spread their love and affection to
more children (as their situations genuinely
allow), then they are stretched into giving
more. However, when people or programs denigrate
the gift of children and families, then charity
itself can be thwarted. When families--however
small or large--truly go out of themselves to
love and sacrifice, then charity and God Himself
are manifested. For, as the Bible says: "God is
love," and, "if we love one another God remains
in us and His love is brought to perfection is
us (I Jn 4:8, 12) . Thus, when we give and love
we are participating with God as Gift-giver,
thereby becoming who He wishes us to be (see 2
Pt. 1:4).
Another priest, Fr
Collins, a dog-lover and artist, suggested that
gift-giving, especially at Christmastime, is
sometimes a faint or veiled way to imitate God
in giving us the Gift of Christ. Our "job," he
said, is to remind people of this connection and
the "Reason for the Season". An "image and
likeness" of this is, of course, Santa Claus,
who is a type of secular icon of St. Nicholas
(whose feast day was Dec. 6).
Some of the "story of
Santa Claus" reminds us of Saint Nicholas-and
God. For instance, you may want to prod your
children into asking, doesn't the richness and
busyness of "Santa's plentiful workshop of toys
and goodwill" somehow represent God's boundless
Love, and His celestial paradise called Heaven?
Don't the "elves," and all the toy- and
gift-making, streamlined into efficiency, hint
at God's and the saints' overflowing and heroic
love --constantly outgoing to others? (I Cor.
4:11: "to this hour we (disciples) go
hungry…When ridiculed we bless…we endure…").
What about Santa, persevering thru snowstorms
and squeezing meticulously down the chimney to
carry out charity? Can this remind us all of the
need for fortitude in the virtues, charity and
Faith? ("We endure everything so as not to place
an obstacle to Christ"-I Cor. 9:12). And when
Santa disappears after all the good he has done,
doesn't this remind you of the saints--and Jesus
Himself--counseling and practicing selflessness?
(see Mt. 6: 1-4).
As we priests later
gathered in Church for holy hour, our leader, Fr
Farmer, a great pro-life priest, and ex-lawyer
(he likes lawyer jokes), prior to benediction,
prayed so movingly and appropriately: "Help us,
in preparing for Christmas, to prepare for
Christ."… Amen. We all need the reminder!...
The Gospel
If you were going to
prepare a spiritual manger for the Infant Child
Jesus to be born--in your soul--wouldn't you
clean out the old straw (sins) and put in new,
fresh straw (virtues, Love and Faith)?
In the Gospel today (Mk.
1) -St John the Baptist calls us all to make
straight what is crooked. All of us can get
crooked and mangled-in our thoughts, words, and
deeds. But this great Season of Advent is a time
to prepare a highway for the Lord (See Isaiah ch
40, the first Reading from today's Liturgy); we
are counseled to remove every blemish from our
lives (see the first Pope's writing, I Pt. 4:1
ff).
Let's face it: crooked,
sinful, mistaken ideas lead to crooked people.
When a person embraces the crooked idea of
temporal riches bringing lasting happiness-by
stealing, for instance--he not only breaks a
commandment, he also can become crooked-a thief.
When someone acts continuously upon the crooked
and seductive idea of ecstasy, in taking drugs
which promise a false "transcendence," (ecstasy
literally means 'to stand out of "), then he not
only destroys brain cells and God-given
reasoning power, but also becomes crooked--a
drug addict… As the Old Testament (and the
prophetic provocation of Isaiah, ch. 40)
constantly reminds us, Israel became crooked by
at least two destructive ways: forgetting
God-His saving grace-and worshipping false
idols.
The Israelites thought
that, after being saved from Egyptian
enslavement, being rescued in desert wanderings
and impoverishment, after receiving constant
graces thru battles with the Babylonians and
Assyrians, God had nonetheless forgotten them.
Sound familiar?: Israel, really, is us-- in our
sufferings and trials of life-we often are at
least tempted to forget God and His love for us.
And so we may question, doubt or block God's
mercy and love; we may thereby lead lives of
lukewarmness or rebellion…Crooked ideas lead to
crooked people…
Perhaps you've
forgotten--or gotten the crooked idea--that the
Sabbath-Sunday rest is now open to unnecessarily
shop for others, and thereby perpetuate
commercialism and work, even before Christmas:
after all you're doing a good deed and your
super busy. Wait a minute. The Third Commandment
frees us of this: As Pope John Paul reminds in
his writing, "The Day of the Lord," we are first
called to worship God at Sunday Mass, and also
read the Bible, do charitable deeds, and imitate
God Himself by relaxing, not promote consumerism
and forgetfulness of God and His Sabbath rest.
One family I know makes
special attempts to fix today's crooked
temptations by spending special time with each
other, turning off the TV. and slowing down…It's
hard but there's hardly an alternative: How
about you?...We say we want peace and
stress-free lives, but are we really willing and
persevering to follow the prophets' call to
reform and radical change-even until it hurts?
In First Peter, ch... 4,
the Pope is counseling the Christians to battle
sensualism in awaiting the Lord's Second Coming.
Two current, pervasively crooked ideas,
surrounding this, include:
- Doubting the Last
Judgment--this is a theme of Advent-Jesus'
return in glory to judge all the living and
dead. Some people justify sloth and
lukewarmness by their doubting this doctrine.
- Luxurious living-this
mantra includes: "I deserve and need all the
comforts (drink, food, sexual pleasure, home
life) I can get and come my way, and none of
these will alter my spiritual life." St Peter
counsels against this crooked idea: "so as not
to spend what remains of one's life in the
flesh on human desires, but on the will of
God" (I Pt. 4:1). How can you mend this
crookedness by refraining from excessive
eating and drinking before Christmas and
thereby make full preparation for the
celebration?... Advent is God's gift and the
prophetic call to reform, change, re-orient to
straighten out what is crooked and harmful to
God, ourselves, our neighbors. The prophets
provoke us into new life and receiving the
Presence of God with fresh, prepared hearts…
Lastly, consider and
challenge the crooked idea of "busybodyism".
This means constantly moving as in a
materialistic race, and never praying and
slowing down-never stopping--to receive God's
grace. We Catholics are not socialistic
activists; we are supposed to be, as St.
Ignatius says, "contemplatives in action". St
John the Baptist, just like Jesus, fasted and
prayed in the desert for a reason-to show us we
need to receive God first in order to give Him
and His gifts to others. Just like the Virgin
Mary and all saints, we must pray in all
things-(I Th 5:17); enduringly (Lk. 18:1); we
must trust in Him to help us ("fiat," Lk..
1:46), and contemplate deeply, within, His gift
and grace to us (Lk. 2:52)…
Fix the crookedness of
your life by praying, today, for at least ten
minutes, and then increasing to a half-hour and
hour. One young lady gave up television and
started reading the Bible for her upcoming
Confirmation. After being confirmed she
continued the holy practice…How about
you?…Crooked ideas lead to crooked lives and
people…Holy ideals lead to saints.
Briefly Noted
Advent-Christmas
Offering to the Grotto: We very much appreciate
it if you consider giving a sacrificial gift to
the Grotto at this giving time of year. We are
currently collecting funds for: our NEW ORGAN
(will be delivered in Feb.); repairs of
FLAGSTONE near Grotto candles; new PLANTINGS of
trees and bushes in he Springtime…We are very
thankful for your ongoing support-financial and
otherwise-of Our Lady's Grotto.
Gift Ideas: This
Advent-Christmas you may want to think of
spiritualizing your gifts. 1. Giving a Spiritual
Bouquet: this means offering up a Mass, a
Rosary, a sacrifice (a fast or costly loving
action ) for the person's intentions and writing
it nicely in a greeting or Christmas card ; 2.a
Bible, or a spiritual book: give this to a loved
one instead of secularist material…
Article of the Week: See
Glass Chapel or ask for copy of on
Co-Habitation, its pervasiveness, un-Christianness
and deleterious effects on the family.
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